Some information on the "recommended" FA-150-S-12-2 (2 inch) actuator from
http://www.firgelliauto.com/Looks like for an extra $20 you can get the same unit but with built in position feedback FA-PO-150-12-2, handy if you wanted to include a flap position indicator or use a smart flap controller.
Thinking about the flap trim. With a bit of thought I think it may be possible to rig up a connection to the actuator that would allow for differential adjustment the the flaps in keeping with the original concept. Not sure if going down that path makes much sense, the aileron trim tab would probably be the more effective option.
Stuart